Summer for a youth ministry leader is busy.
Your schedule is jam packed with camp, a mission trip, fun events, etc.
It’s easy to get caught up in the all craziness and get overwhelmed.
Here’s how you can avoid getting overwhelmed in the chaos of a busy summer schedule.
The key is two-fold. Let me explain.
As I type these words, I’m in San Diego with my family (although this blog post is actually published a few weeks after the trip).
We lived here from 2009-2012 and had the time of our lives. Because we love the culture, people, and atmosphere so much, we come back and visit each year.
Instead of all the tourist stuff, we find joy in the simple things.
The typical family on a trip seeks out the big over-the-top experiences. Instead, we find joy in the simple things.
This morning, I woke up before everyone else and took a walk along the Marina by our hotel, and read a book on a comfy couch in the courtyard.
Next, I drove to OB (Ocean Beach) and grabbed some breakfast at People’s, my favorite organic co-op grocery store.
I didn’t do anything particularly exciting, but enjoyed every moment of it. I love being by the water, reading a good book in the shade, and being in OB.
The highlight of the day yesterday was walking on the OB pier with my daughter, Emma (see pic below).
All the fond memories of living here came flooding back for her on the walk. We soaked up the sun, enjoyed the cool breeze, and chatted about life. Moments like that are priceless.
I think one of the keys to happiness in life is to find joy in the simple things, and that’s certainly true in youth ministry.
That brings up to the first step to avoid summer burnout and overwhelm.
#1 – ENJOY THE SIMPLE THINGS RATHER THAN SEEKING THE MOUNTAIN TOP EXPERIENCES.
During summer programs, we often seek out the mountain top experiences – like God showing up in a big way at camp, or students lives being transformed during a missions trip.
We elevate those experiences over everything else.
Instead, learn to enjoy the everyday things.
Have lunch with a student. Be present. Enjoy the conversation.
Regardless of how many students surrender their lives to Jesus at camp, just enjoy being a part of what God is doing in the lives of young people. Enjoy the process.
Now, I’m not saying to give up the hope or even expectation of God doing awesome stuff in the lives of your students this summer.
What I am saying is that all the other everyday simple things are equally as important. Those moments can bring us great amounts of joy and purpose.
#2 – SURRENDER THE OUTCOME TO GOD. JUST GET OUT OF THE WAY.
I know this sounds like a no brainer, but it’s real easy to take on the weight of making something happen in your own power.
Summer brings with it a lot of expectations for big things to happen.
All you can do is create an environment for God to show up. Then, get out of the way and let God be God. It’s not up to you. It never was. Get out of the way and let him do his thing.
When you’re having lunch with a student, let go of your agenda. Be tuned in to what God is doing in the life of that student and go from there.
At camp, let go of the need to pressure students to make a decision to follow Jesus. Simply create the opportunity, and let God do the rest.
When you get out of the way and surrender the outcome to God… good stuff happens.
Well, there you have it.
Hope those two quick thoughts were helpful.
– Nick Diliberto, Ministry to Youth
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I wrote it when we were visiting Yosemite on the way to San Diego. I was greatly inspired by the beauty that surrounded me.