YOUTH GROUP GAME ON PRAYER

Here’s a free youth group lesson on prayer that helps students move beyond the “God, please make this happen” kind of prayer we’ve all prayed – usually when the pizza is 20 minutes late and 30 hungry teenagers are staring at you. 😬

Through a fun opening game and a look at James 5:16, students will discover that prayer is more than asking God for stuff. It’s an ongoing conversation where we talk, listen, and grow closer to Him.

Nick Diliberto
Founder, Ministry to Youth

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YOUTH GROUP GAME ON PRAYER

Bible: James 5:16

Big Idea: Prayer is two-way communication with God, not a monologue.

SUPPLIES

• 2 different brands of bottled water
• 2 cones
• Masking tape

GAME PREP

• Use masking tape to create a 3 ft. X 3 ft. (or larger) Tic-Tac-Toe board on the floor.
• Place two cones about 6 ft. away from the Tic-Tac-Toe board and assign each team to a cone.
• Divide your group into two equal teams.
• You will need one brand of water bottle for each team.
• Give each student a water bottle from their team’s brand.

HOW TO PLAY THE GAME

Say: For our game today, you have been given a water bottle.

You may drink as much of your water as you need for it to flip the way you want during our game.

When I say GO, one person from each team will walk up to their team’s cone and flip their water bottle into one of the nine spaces on the Tic-Tac-Toe board.

• You only get one flip per turn, so flip wisely.
• If your bottle lands upright, either right side up or upside down, your team’s bottle wins the space, and that student leaves the bottle in its place and steps to the side.
• If your team’s bottle does not land upright, you will retrieve your bottle from the board and go to the back of the line quickly so the next team member may go.
• The first team to get three in a row up and down, across, or diagonally, wins.
• You can also use your turn to take over a space that the other team has filled.
• If you can knock the other’s team’s bottle over, while at the same time, leaving your bottle upright in the space, your team will win that space.

TEACH

Say: Think about that game for a second. Every time you flipped your bottle, you knew exactly what you wanted to happen. You wanted it to land upright.

Sometimes we approach prayer the same way. We know what we want to happen, so we tell God: Help me pass this test. Fix this situation. Make this work out.

And there’s nothing wrong with asking God for what we want or need. But if prayer is only us telling God what we want to happen, we’re missing a huge part of it.

Prayer isn’t about trying to get God to make everything land exactly the way we want. Prayer is a conversation with God.

That means we talk, and we listen.

Think about any good conversation you’ve had with a friend. What would happen if you did all the talking? You told them about your day, complained about your problems, asked them for stuff—and then walked away before they could say anything.

That wouldn’t be much of a conversation. But sometimes that’s exactly what we do with God. We pray, God, help me with this. God, give me that. God, please fix this. Then we say, Amen, and move on with our day.

Ask: Why do you think listening can be harder than talking when we pray?

Allow a few responses from students.

Listening to God doesn’t usually mean hearing an audible voice. God can speak to us as we read Scripture. He can bring something to our attention as we sit quietly with Him. He can use wise people in our lives. And sometimes we simply need to slow down long enough to notice what God might be doing in us.

Prayer isn’t just about changing our circumstances. Prayer can change us. It can change the way we see a situation, change our attitude toward someone, help us recognize something we need to do differently, or remind us that God is with us even when our situation doesn’t change.

The Bible tells us that our prayers matter.

Read James 5:16.

James says that prayer is powerful and can produce incredible results. But that doesn’t mean prayer is a formula where we say the right words and God gives us exactly what we ask for.

Prayer is about relationship. The more you talk with someone, and actually listen to them, the more you get to know them. The same is true with God.

The more we spend time talking with God, listening to God, and paying attention to what He is doing in our lives, the more our relationship with Him grows.

So this week, when you pray, don’t just give God a list. Tell Him what’s going on. Tell Him what you’re worried about. Ask for what you need. And then spend some time listening.

You might simply sit quietly. You might read a few verses from the Bible and think about what stands out to you. You might ask, God, is there something You want me to notice right now?

Because prayer isn’t a monologue. Prayer is two-way communication with God.

We talk. We listen. And over time, that conversation can change us and help us grow closer to God.

End lesson

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